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Growing Child: Finding a good preschool

Another wonderful essay from the “Grandma Says” feature of Growing Child. Many of the ideas seem applicable to setting up a good home environment for discovery and learning as well.


FINDING A GOOD PRESCHOOL

You may be getting ready for your youngster to take the first step in education outside your home this fall. That means you are likely getting recommendations from friends about good preschools, and making visits to observe and interview directors.

This process can be very confusing. Good preschools often don’t look like the memories many parents have of “school.”

Further, with all the pressures on education at higher levels, parents may feel they should be selecting a school that offers heavy academic emphasis. But that would be wrong.

Let’s consider what you will find in a developmentally appropriate preschool program, one where decisions and curriculum are based on what we know about the developmental abilities of young children, and how they learn best.

Children construct their own knowledge. Rather than learning just by being told or shown, good preschools offer children ways for them to “teach” themselves, with firsthand experiences.

Children learn through their senses. Good preschools offer abundant, real, three-dimensional objects for children to manipulate and explore. Some of the materials may be gloriously messy, like sand, water, paint, and clay.

Children constantly make associations with previous knowledge. Familiar materials are provided, and they are available over a period of time, so that children can repeat experiences and deepen their understanding.

Children are frustrated easily. A good preschool provides an environment and materials that are accessible and easy for children to manage themselves. Materials in a classroom will range from simple to more complex, so that individuals can find their level of success.

Children learn what they want to know. Teachers observe and listen to children, and design curriculum that provides ways for them to follow interests. Motivation is from the child’s inner drive to learn, not from a need to learn what pleases the adult.

Children learn from making mistakes. Knowledgeable teachers allow mistakes to happen, though of course they are mindful of safety. Figuring out what went wrong provides lasting lessons.

Children learn from accomplishing hard tasks. Teachers encourage and support children’s efforts, without rushing in with solutions. Children’s self esteem grows as they master the tasks they set for themselves.

Children need time to organize their thinking. Good preschools provide long periods of uninterrupted time for children to explore and interact. The classroom is child-centered, rather than adult-driven.

Children have different attention spans. Good preschools provide flexible schedules so children can move at their own pace, getting as much or as little help as they require. Opportunities to develop self-help skills are valued as part of the curriculum.

Children have trouble waiting. A good preschool classroom does not require children to all do the same thing at the same time. Choices and separate play spaces allow children to proceed happily.

Children this age cannot share. A good classroom provides many choices of activities, as well as duplicates of popular materials. When children do not have to compete too often, there are fewer conflicts. And most importantly:

Children learn everything they need to learn in the preschool years through the medium of play. Play allows children to use their imaginations, their bodies and language, while developing social skills—all the foundations of learning.

When you find a preschool that follows these ideas, you may be sure that your child will thrive there happily.

["Grandma Says" is a feature of Growing Child and they encourage you to send your comments to: GrandmaSays@GrowingChild.com. Used by permission of the copyright owner Growing Child, Inc.]

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  • http://www.thesmarterpreschooler.com Renee Mosiman

    Or, if you don’t want to send your kids to preschool and are so inclined you can provide all of the cognitive, emotional, and social enrichment a young child needs. I outlined all of this in my book, The Smarter Preschooler: Unlocking Your Child’s Intellectual Potential. It is the Gold winner of the Mom’s Choice Award and currently a finalist in AZ Book Publishing Award and Living Free Award.

    Renee, author of
    http://www.thesmarterpreschooler.com

  • http://www.preschoolprimer.com Jenifer Wana

    What a wonderful essay! I’ve read a ton of articles and research about finding a good preschool but this really captures what parents should be looking for in a program. Another one to add could be:

    Children need time with others and time to themselves. A good preschool curriculum balances individual, small-group, and large-group activities so children get the opportunity to work with others as well as build their indepence accomplishing projects on their own.

    Jenifer Wana
    Author, How to Choose the Best Preschool for Your Child: The Ultimate Guide to Finding, Getting Into, and Preparing for Nursery School (www.preschoolprimer.com)

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